Maintaining connections with people has become a challenge. Parkinson’s affects handwriting, making it difficult to write letters. Speech-to-text technology has improved communication. Technology has decreased postal correspondence, but digital and analog communication should coexist. Different occasions may call for different forms of communication. Integrating technology into friendships requires considering alternative means of contact.
Part 1
It seems, at least to me, that it is much more of a challenge to maintain and nurture connections with people. Not sure what’s going on, but here are a few thoughts.
The written word
As my handwriting continues to become a bit more illegible, I am not likely to write a full letter. Even with ruled pages, my script will not be on the line. Above, below, but never with anysort of predictability where it should be. So, it is not my most comfortable form of communicating. Tremors that are a part of Parkinson’s will often cause letters to be misshaped to the point of being unintelligible. And that’s even for me, the writer who cannot even read what he wrote. Just the way it is.
The advances in technology for speech-t0-text have been transformational for me. Learning how to add punctuation, “Period,” “Question mark,” “Comma,”Exclamation mark,” have made it easier to write something. This simple capability of technology has given me much more opportunity to communicate and connect without having to rely on pen and paper.
Old or new
I have observed over many, many years that as technology has become more ubiquitous, correspondence delivered by the post office has declined. Can a SMS be an adequate or equivalent form to a postcard? No. Can an email equate to a letter? Definitely not. Not wanting to categorize all technology as bad, let me propose that there must be some sort of balance between the digital communication and the analog communication. Consider that there are some instances, selected events, particular gatherings that are better served with digital, and some analog.
What determined that writing a thank you note, placed in an envelope, addressed and with the postal stamp was not necessary, even perhaps just a wrong thing? I can remember writing thank you notes for birthday gifts, holiday gifts and much more. To receive a thank you social media post, or sms text message isn’t a written one. Not to worry, I know that the mode that each one communicates in differs. And that’s alright with me. I am letting you understand more about my own disciplines.
For now
If you find yourself with a friend who have integrated technology rather than uses technology, ask “So, how can I get back with you if I have any questions?” Would a physical, mailing address work? A phone number (not the corded variety, more than likely a wireless or digital or mobile)?
The times are and have changed. The IoT is present.